Well boys, I finally did it. I blocked this bitch I was beta orbiting for 5 months who only hit me up when she needed something. She totally freaked out and threatened to ignore me when I couldn't cover her shift. She cried and apologized on the phone only to ghost me today when she promised to make it up to me. She was next door the entire day. Now how long can I ignore her before my backbone caves in and I fall back into my beta patterns?
Also, I've lost 50 lbs since December while gaining strength and visible muscle by following a simple workout plan and caloric deficit. Where were you when I debunked all fasting and dieting fit memes?
why block her instead of just ghosting her and/or becoming unreliable? if you're not busy enough to have better shit to do than cater to her needs then find some new hobbies
John Sanchez
It's probably the easiest way for him to push past being a bitch, blocking her stops him from caving in
Luke Miller
>Where were you when I debunked all fasting and dieting fit memes?
We were all sitting here laughing at you.
Jace Brooks
i'm literally incapable of not being a bitch when interacting with her.
Lucas Miller
>i'm literally incapable of not being a bitch when interacting with her.
Best way to get over that is rape the fuck out of her.
Joshua Nguyen
friend unironically suggested i do this. No thanks
Anthony Diaz
I read this post three times in utter confusion, trying to figure out what the fuck you were on about until it hit me: you are clearly about 20 years old, possibly even younger.
There is simply no other explanation for why a man should be so broken up, so despondent, so confused over something as lowly and pitiful as a WOMAN. Seriously, a WOMAN? That's your problem? Your ancestors slaved away through times of war, poverty, and disease so that you could totally freak out and throw your life in disarray over a WOMAN?
Dude you are off to a rough start. None of the shit you've described matters to me or even piques my interest in the least. The fact that THIS is your primary concern in life says alot about you, my man. Get your shit in order.
A woman!!!! lmao
Joseph Gonzalez
I took this one girl I met at a bar I frequent on a few dates. Never fucked her though she kept playing hard to get. Eventually she texts me some annoying shit and I just say this isn’t working by and good luck.
I go to the bar with friends a few weeks later and she’s working but I completely ignore her. She texts me later “why didn’t you come say hi?” Told her I thought we were done and she says “can’t we still be friends?” I say sure. Next day she texts me and wants me to meet her at a bar. We get a few drinks and chat for an hour then she says “let’s get out of here, follow me home”. Go to her place and fuck on the couch.
Sometimes ignoring them and being willing to cut them loose is your best chance. I think it bothers them when a guy is willing to ghost them so they chase you and fuck you to fix the negative feelings they were experiencing.
Austin Johnson
yes i know. I think it stems from a lack of a mother and I feel the need to constantly please women in my life. idk really. The gym has kept most of my feelings at bay and I don't think I'd have the stones to begin forgetting this chick until my huge weight loss.
This. Lately I’ve been meditating and reading the Bible to turn myself gay (and no longer have to associate with females). No success so far but I’m gonna keep on trying
Jonathan Thomas
I wasn’t trying to manipulate her I was literally tired of her bullshit. I had taken her on 3 dates and still not putting out. I was cutting my losses.
Austin Martin
let me give you a little wisdom, champ.
you will never please women. they don't really want to be pleased, nor CAN they be pleased by someone TRYING to please them. men and women are different, in that women don't feel the need for male companionship in the same way that men desire from women. rather, women love the POWER associated with twisting young men under their thumb, and that's the role you're filling for this particular wench. you're doing exactly what she wants you to do, which is want HER. she loves it. she will exert power over you until it gets too pitiful even for her to enjoy, or she simply grows bored and finds a new victim. it sounds like fantasy, and you'll probably convince yourself i'm nuts until you've been around long enough to see for yourself just how evil women are. the only way for you to learn is to get hurt over and over like all men do, so maybe it's pointless for me to even try to impart this wisdom.
maybe japanese cartoons and liberal media have brainwashed you, but the reality is that MEN are strong, and women are weak. so fucking act like it, lad. if you really want to turn the tables on this girl, the first thing you need to do is cease giving a shit about her.
i don't mean ACT like you don't give a shit, i mean truly and deeply, in your soul, do not give a shit. because you know what all women really want? it's the same thing that all people want--what they can't have.
be what she can't have, and she will want you. until then, you're just a scared mouse being tossed around by the cat.
Levi Hernandez
is this truly making it?
Jose Martin
i had sex with around 40 women in my early 20s. never found happiness, only hearthache and manipulation. i've been celibate the last 2 years. as much as i like the idea of finding someone, i'll be 30 pretty soon and figure it might be easier to come to peace with eternal loneliness.
Noah Rivera
I think so. Look at the gay lifestyle, constant sex with bros who, better clubs, and zero women. The second scientists find a way to combine the dna of two men into one baby, we will reach utopia.
Logan Allen
nah man I think you're right. The first step to not giving a shit is just blocking her right?
Lucas Jones
Anytime a girl wants you to do some shit ask yourself if you would do it for a random guy or not. If not her pussy has power over you. That’s okay sometimes but you gotta realize it. We all play a game in an attempt to get the pussy but there’s only so much effort you should be willing to put in before it becomes pathetic.
Samuel Reyes
I'm almost hesitant to give you the right advice because like I said, some lessons are best learned through the pain of failure. It's the only way to really internalize what I'm warning you about.
But personally, what I'd do is block her and completely avoid girls like this at the very first sign of this sort of craziness. All women are nuts, but the ones that are genuinely interested in you will do their damndest to hide it from you for as long as they can. The ones revealing their psycho level are only doing so because they know if you continue chasing them, then they really have got you on the hook, and thus they can play their sick little games with you for their amusement (or worse, milk you for your cash or some other twisted end).
You want to have healthy, normal relationships with women? Work out, eat right, carry yourself with confidence, dress yourself in classy attire (not too flashy, but not cheap), and at all costs avoid the impression that you are trying to impress anybody. Like a short guy who wears lifts, there is no greater sign of weakness to a woman than someone trying to impress her. They can smell the desperation like blood in the water. If they think you've got your shit together and you can do better, they will start to try to impress YOU.
Jackson Perez
i think it became pathetic for me when I literally gave her a ride to her boyfriend's house. yikes man. My self respect is at an all time low
Benjamin Foster
You’re prolly young. Use it as a learning experience. If you are truly /fit your prime is at 30 anyways. You’ll learn how to deal with women and have money by then.
Josiah Brown
every successful and great man only got that way through tremendous pain and suffering. learn how to turn your pain and humiliation into fuel, and nothing can stop you.
Blake Howard
Heading to graduate school in the fall. Have about 20 lbs until I hit normal weight for my BMI. I guess I'll keep my head down until then
Ryan Phillips
Be a Saiyan is what he’s saying. Ask yourself what would Vegeta do? /thread
Jaxson Kelly
Done this to my crush after alot of back n forth. We havent texted in 1 month. Doesnt always work :|
Cooper Harris
this is valuable data your sacrifice has not gone unappreciated
Thomas Ross
I think her seeing me in person having fun with my friends and not caring about her was the trigger.
Josiah Rodriguez
IT's simple.
If you want to keep being a pussy utterly undeserving of respect, then continue to act the way you're acting.
If you decide to be a man, then start acting like a man
"Boo hoo I'm literally incable of..."
Bullshit. Everybody knows you're lying, and you do too.
James Butler
enjoy beta life
Sometimes drastic measures are needed to change ourselves. Why do you think people who survive life-threatening situations always become better versions of themselves?
okay I want to indulge in my emotions and tell this cunt off. then block her from my life. How is that?
Gavin Long
>Why do you think people who survive life-threatening situations always become better versions of themselves? I support your sentiment but this isn't always true having your life threatened can really break people down.
Grayson Sanchez
It's not about raping someone, it's more about throwing off whatever mind chains you have that make you such a beta fag. You clearly think you're inferior to thots, which is why you let her walk all over you. Rape will show you how fragile women really are, thus improving confidence.
Afterwards, just seek forgiveness by doing good deeds and it won't even affect your moral compass.
you're still a faggot for multiple reasons the primary one is that you're still here responding to that guy instead of just doing whatever it is you want to do I kinda hope you don't succeed because I like not having decent opposition, sometimes I don't consider you a capable human being You should feel ashamed, but then again you probably need permission for that
Ethan Taylor
Girls love attention, just don't reply and make it known that you can see her messages
I am 6ft2 and 200lbs and could do with losing about 10lbs youstill a bit chubby?
Nicholas Nguyen
How would it be unhealthy? Rape is a natural part of being an animal. If anything, you would be one step closer to enlightenment. How can you ever expect to understand and overcome 'evil' if you've never experienced it?
Jayden Sanchez
dick
John James
Hey good for you OP, I hope you are still here to see this. You should really feel good taking control of your life
I think we all have had our orbiting bouts, growing as men, learning the socioeconomic landscape. I used to orbit this girl in highschool so hard I was basically a slave to her every command. Took me a long time to realize how damaging that was to me and I eventually severed all contact with her. That was my first step in gaining confidence as a man.
You're welcome. At least you have some self awareness. What often happens to men in your position, is that they double down on the "Mr. Nice Guy" act. Endlessly toiling for women who serve them absolutely nothing in return, and ultimately end up settling for a 4-6/10 wife whomst rarely puts out and aggressively manipulates every aspect of the relationship. This fellow will rationalize his eternal torment and sexual deprivation for the sake of his loving perfect family of course! The house filled with chaos, yet appears manicured at family events. Eventually the lad snaps, divorce, drag netting the scum at the bottom of the barrel with his newfound wisdom.
Dont be that guy. Always remember you have free will and can exercise it at any time.
These posts are golden
Lucas Robinson
You need therapy or something. Stop being so fucking pathetic.
She moved to another country so it was destined to fail anyways I guess. Oh well, still hurts a lil when you're 27 and only ever let a few girls get close to you.
