Being a good listener and asking people questions about their intrests and about thinks they love talking about
How do I not be boring? What exactly makes someone interesting?
Joshua Harris
Nicholas Reyes
The thing holding you back from being who you wanna be is your fear. Remove your filters when talking that your internal fears have created. Don't be autistic, but recognize that the more you filter yourself, the less you have to talk about.
Michael Bell
just beeurself
Adam Lewis
doesn't make you an interesting person though
David Lopez
The things you do while taking trips with them do
Thomas Price
>remove filter
There's always that one unfiltered chad. Someone's already said it, but remove your filters. Don't be afraid to offend or confuse people if you truly think they deserve it, but don't be a cunt. Being opposed to certain things builds character.
>play a competitive sport
It doesn't matter what sport it is, so long as you're active in it, and love it.
>clothing
Wear nice clothes. Smell and feel fresh because this will boost your confidence like crazy. You're only insecure and unconfident because you got 3 hours of sleep last night and forgot to put on deodorant for the day.
Also don't be afraid to stand out a little in terms of clothing at parties. Display character.
>doing stuff
We've replaced experiences with time-fillers like browsing anime boards. Do shit.
>read
Read. A mind needs books like a sword needs a whetstone. Develop your wit and humour.
etcetera.
Dominic Cox
Completely disagree. Groups of normies hate meaningful discussion of any topic besides cars, girls, sports, people not present, consumer tech (phones), stories from the past and maybe shared professional concerns. Try talking about something that only you are very interested in. Who you gonna talk to about it? Bunch of people who can't possibly contribute cause they lack your level knowledge? At best they might be interested for real and ask questions but then your encounter becomes a lecture. That's at best. At worst you bore everyone to tears.
Far better is to talk about nothing and fish for those moments when you can make someone else feel good. Friend says he has a new job? Ask for details. Make him or her feel like you care or that it is interesting. The purpose of talking is NOT exchange of knowledge. It's a tool for building confidence among those who participate. While this is shallow as fuck it makes other people like yo and you will get invited to social gatherings. You meet more people, more people like you, more people know you, more opportunities of varying nature you get.
If you wish to talk because you have something to say that is interesting to you better just upload it to youtube or start a blog. This way people have a way to opt-out without leaving the room.
Also, even if you get some people interested almost always such discussion will end in an argument or people feeling worse about themselves. Try talking about being Jow Forums to normies. They either will spew idiocy (ex. calories don't matter) or feel bad that what they thought they knew turned out to be false. Making people feel bad for whatever reason, even if you are correct and have good intentions, will get you not invited anymore. In some parts of the world it is even consider literally rude to talk about politics during a social gathering that was not assembled for this purpose. And it is a great rule. Try having a political discussion that does not end with a heated exchange.
Charles Ortiz
Start drinking lots of alcohol. Like every time you see people you should be at least a bit drunk.
Brody White
while you’re not wrong, girls get fucking wet from knowledge and passion. for making friends and being casual, yeah small talk is a go to but if you really want to impress a girl try explaining something you love in depth (as long as it’s not autistic and is actually interesting/beneficial to your life). by doing this it shows that you have depth and drive as a person and are passionate about something of value to your future, you demonstrate ability as a provider. don’t sperg out about your workout or anything weeb/meme related tho that will end all chances of ever right there
Jason Taylor
1. You can be boring to some and interesting to others
2. The key is how you relate to the world. If you are invested and truly alive then you are interesting. The amount of things you do doesn't matter in the slightest.
Disregard all other advice. This is the real redpill i have concentrated for you in 2 bullet points