Got my girlfriend drunk once and she told me she had been raped. I can't describe how it made me feel but It wasn't good. We dated for over a year after this and I don't think it really effected the relationship. If you really love someone it shouldn't matter what happened to them in the past. Especially something that's not really in their control.
Be me
Nathan Jackson
Dylan James
(You)
>cont.
That was ages ago now, but essentially what had happened was the perfect storm; she was drunk, and at a party with some acquaintances (but few friends because they all "felt" she was odd), she felt isolated, then I drove off without a second thought.
When she was raped it was at a house party two hours away from the little suburb she lived in, and that she knew no one at
>obviously, the dude was that-29yo and still partying with 18-22 college students because he could buy alcohol and deal lmaoweed, and other drain cleaner shit...
she wanted to be "cool" and was peer-pressured to drink, he took her upstairs, you can guess what happened, then when he was done he obviously got spooked and so he bailed and ghosted her entirely.
She ended up walking home.
Didn't file a report for six months because she was scared/ashamed.
To say it was a case study situation would be underselling it, but fuck me it wasn't until I was on the receiving end of it that I realized all that #metoo and compulsory Sexual Harassment stuff is there for a purpose and reason.
After she had told me this I felt sick dudes, I felt like if I ever somehow came across the guys, somehow recognized him, I'd just run him over or do full Driver on his ass.
I'm going to stop talking about this now bcause it's making me feel like a piece of shit
>Oh yeah, you'll beat yourself up A LOT over when things go wrong because you're the "stable" one. Get used to it.
But there you go, hope that answered some questions.
Josiah Gutierrez
me too buddy
Mason Richardson
see (was )
Corrected some shit.
Juan Cox
fuck
Aaron Long
>all these deleted posts
Did I miss something important
Luke Nelson
>I still feel like he really fucked up her life
Because they do dude.
Women can be strong, strongest women I ever knew was my mom and gran. But this sort of shit scars them for life, sure it might "heal", sure they learn coping mechanisms, but again all it takes is like I said; a perfect storm.
Luis Lewis
Nah, just missed some hard feels.
I edited some stuff for clarity, but an user responded before I deleted and reposted it. Then By the time I reposted they'd deleted their original response!
Serve me right for trying to be serious on the chins.
Blake Stewart
Not who asked, but thanks for these m8. Always interesting to see other people's experiences with unstable women. I'm an old fag who was lucky enough to learn everything I needed to know about women early on, but I still feel there's some value to be gained here.
Liam Allen
>Be Wh*toid
>Be weak as fuck thinking you're successful
>Get KEKED for a nigger
>Thinking you have any chance of competing against the BBM (Big Black Mandingo)