What are you arguing? Ask me a specific question and I'll give you a specific answer to the best of my ability. I can only speak from my own experience. But I've seen people get better man, I've seen it work and change people's lives. I'm just telling you what worked for me and offering some suggestions. I'm not trying to argue with you, I apologise if it came off that way, I got a little swept up.
Former robot here- AMA
I wish I could introduce you to some of the women I know. I'd suggest you get offline and go somewhere that good people congregate.
But I'm not an alcoholic dude
i'm arguing this you're just not helpful
where do good people congregate, it's apparently not obvious.
Dude, I'm 35. I didn't get her until I was 29.
It doesn't matter. you can replace the word "alcohol" with whatever your issue is. It only says alcohol once I the 12 steps. They are designed as a spiritual path to induce a psychic change and we're developed in part by Carl Jung.
But I was just using that as an example. Wherever you live, find a group of people like you who are improving their lives. Ask for help. Take suggestions from people you see living the way you want to live. Participate. Find a path and follow it, stick to it no matter what. That's what has worked for me.
Dude. I was a staunch atheist, now I get on my knees amd pray at least three times a day. I don't even like on Jow Forums. And life is good man. I don't care about the why's and wherefores, I just know it works.
Umm... Support groups, AA/NA, church, temples, any kind of spiritual community, like when places that offer yoga have a get together... Hell, yoga or Tai chi class would be a great place. I know a girl named Crystal who is a nurse and she loves yoga. She's liberal, and a little thick, and also pretty dumb, but she is an amazing fucking person man. She cares so much about people, she'd give you the shirt off her back. Does that help?
Can you at least give a better summary of your life?
>short hair
>tattoo
>looks post wall
Sounds like a great deal
>Loyal
>Loving
>Generous
>Compassionate
>Funny
>Great taste in music
This is why you're an incel